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Causes, signs and cure for addictive relationships

July 31, 2018

Causes, signs and cure for addictive relationships Relationships are very common human activity or part of human life in the world. People get into relationships and breakup when they feel unhappy with it. But, can relationship become addictive? Addictive relationship is a kind of abnormal way of dealing with it. A well balanced relationship is to be involved with 50% duty and 50% responsibility. But in addictive relationship, it will be 90% joy and 10% responsibility. The imbalanced equilibrium creates the relationship to be called addictive. One of the most important sign of addictive relationship is one person taking and other person giving all the times. Addiction differs entirely from the literary meaning and refers to a person becoming self centered and independent. It is quite easy for a person to understand if he/she is addictive in the relationship. Knowing the special meaning of relationship addiction is essential to understand the addictivenes

Steps to stress guard your family

July 24, 2018

Steps to stress guard your family Stress is a common phenomenon in life and even a newborn baby may experience stress of certain kinds. Stress begins from the womb and follows a person to the tomb. No one can resist stress and the only possible way of resisting it is to undergo it and learn to manage it. Stress in family can get more highlighted than any other stresses, as family is the union of people who are bound to love, and affection. Any kind of stress felt in the family can affect each one of the members and also the entire jovial atmosphere of the family. Each one of the family member lives in various situations and it is possible that any one of them undergo stressful situations any time of life. Stress is an unpredictable\element of life, though precautions work to an extent, learning best ways of stress management is the only solution to avoid the after effects of stress. Let us see the ways of stress guarding the family in the most successful way

Messy hair and giant meltdown

May 21, 2018

Yesterday one of my kids decided they would be cranky. When I say cranky, I mean she was like angry bird pumped up adrenaline. At one point I was like, "I don't remember giving birth to this cranky monster? What prompted this? Like all toddler tantrums , this one also seemed to be like, "a whole lot of fuss for nothing." It all started yesterday morning, when I said, "Darling you know what, you need to comb your hair and keep it in place, otherwise your eyesight could go bad." I swear that is all that I said. Hours passed by and still when she chose to walk with a crows nest over her head, happily playing with her dollies, I told her, "Anna if you don't comb your hair, I'll have to come and do it for you." She hates me doing her hair except when she wants to look "all fancy" for a playdate. She replied, "In a minute". Hours pass by and I decide that reminder #2 just went out the window, so I sternly told her, &

The art of mothering

May 17, 2018

There are times when I look back and realize how much I have changed as an individual. I had always hated stuff like poo, pee or any other body fluids for that matter. You would consider me, the epitome of lady-like manners. I think it is the process of becoming a mother that changed me inside out! You know what I'm talking about. It's the labor room experience. I hated getting comfortable as my lady parts were out there for the experts to see. The whole of last trimester all I could think about was my modesty. How would I bring myself to do it? However, once the pain hit me, I hardly cared about such trivial matters. Previously, I was anxious about stuff that seemed so stupid. I later thought to myself, why would I put myself through all that mental agony? Once my boo arrived after a long exhausting labor, all I could think about was how blessed I am. It was as if our beautiful family was complete. Nothing mattered, not even the fact that I was being stitched up

Raising kids and the lemon conundrum

May 10, 2018

Ever heard of," When life gives you lemons, make lemonade!" What if life hurls rotten lemons at you? Sometimes that's how bad things can get, especially with raising kids. One moment you are ecstatic. The next moment, you just want to go hide in a closet. Remember that time when your kid became unbearable to deal with? Remember the times when they threw the mother of all tantrums as you were trying to drive home safely. Or what about that time when your kid decided to yell, "I hate you." Read about how this mom reminisces about her experience raising children here . When kids do badly in school or behave badly in a public place, there are fingers pointed, hand-over-mouth gasps and nods of disapproval. A completely honest person will agree that no parent is perfect. There are moments when you just want to crawl into a ball and just go to sleep. Parenting is hard. There could be a zillion reasons for you to feel that life has literally sucked the life out o

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